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| 題名: | 女性婚姻修復歷程中的自我認同研究以丈夫外遇為例 |
| 其他題名: | A Research on Husband's Extramarital Affairs, Womas's Self-identy in Repairing Marriage Course |
| 作者: | 鄭郁彣
Cheng, Yu-Wen |
| 貢獻者: | 應用社會學系教育社會學碩士班
游淑華
Sue-Hwa Yu |
| 關鍵詞: | 婚姻修復;自我認同;外遇
self-identy;Extramarital Affairs;Marriage Course |
| 日期: | 2016 |
| 上傳時間: | 2016-10-26 14:24:27 (UTC+8) |
| 摘要: | 本研究旨在了解女性面對配偶外遇後，雙方經歷修復關係的歷程，進而探討女性如何面對外遇事件，及在經歷配偶外遇的事件中，女性的自我認同如何轉變。本研究是質性研究取向，以生命故事敘說的研究方式，針對得知先生外遇後仍願意修復關係之三位女性作為研究參與者，進行深度訪談從了解其修復關係之動機和修復關係的經歷及心情開始，進而探討女性在修復歷程中的自我轉變，最後的結果將會將三位研究參與者的故事分別呈現並進行分析，研究發現三者在外遇後的婚姻關係中，大致上經歷了六個階段，分別為：1.發現外遇階段；2.對外遇事件的回應模式；3.選擇修復關係階段；4.修復過程的夫妻情感產生變化；5.女性在修復中自我覺察、重建自我價值；6.修復結果（離婚/先生與第三者結束關係，夫妻和好並持續經營婚姻）。 本研究將會依照研究目的及問題，從以下三個部份來進行討論：一、女性如何看待婚姻中的自我：從婚姻對女性的意義開始談起，了解女性在婚姻關係中的自我與婚前的自我有所不同，進而了解女性的自我在傳統文化與社會價值中所遭遇的壓迫，因此，發現有沒有孩子也會影響到女性如何建構婚姻中的自我認同。二、女性如何因應先生外遇：女性在情緒上必會經歷一段動盪期，其中包含震驚、憤怒、悲傷等，並對自我價值產生懷疑。而在處遇模式上，不論公開揭露先生的外遇事實與否，女性皆會於發現真相後與先生進行溝通，並企圖或確實與第三者談話，希望經由溝通結束外遇行為。三、經歷外遇創傷後女性的自我認同如何產生：女性在經歷外遇事件後，會開始回顧過去的自我，然後關照現在生活與過去自我的落差，並瞻望未來進行自我價值重建。 最後，研究發現受父權思維影響的婚姻關係，雖然會致使女性在婚姻中的自我受到壓迫，但在經歷先生外遇後，女性都能重新探索自我並重建自我價值，而後勇於追求自己所嚮往的生活。
This study aims to understand the difficulties a women faces after discovering her spouse is involved in an affair and the relationship between the two throughout the process of repair including the change in the woman’s self-identity as a result of the affair. By using qualitative analysis as a method of research, I performed in-depth interviews with three different women who were involved in marriages where infidelity was an issue, but they decided to mend the relationship. By using these three as research participants we will attempt to understand the relationship from the standpoint of the motivation behind the desire to repair and experiences and emotions involved followed by a discussion regarding the course of self-transformation of the women involved. Throughout the study of the three individuals researched, I found that there are generally six varying stages in the mending process and these include: 1.The discovery. 2. The initial reactions to the discovery. 3.The decision process to mend the relationship. 4.The change in chemistry between the couple during the repair process. 5.The rebuilding of self-worth from the woman’s prospective. 6.The results of the aforementioned process which include one, if not all of the following, divorce, the termination of the relationship between the spouse and third party, and in many cases, the continuation of the marriage. In accordance with the purpose of the study, we will use the three following ways to discuss the results:1.The females’ self-identity during the course of the marriage: From the significance of the marriage in relation to the views of the women, and understanding the differences in ideology from pre-marital to post-marital times. As well as looking at the self-identity issues in relation to the traditional cultural and social values of gender inequality, and the effects on self-identity due to the women having offspring or being without children. 2.The response mechanism of the women to the affair: The initial emotional turmoil as a result of the adultery which include some if not all of the following, dismay, anger, sadness and self-doubt, etc.. Regardless of their decision to publicly out the affair to family or acquaintances, the women who are subject to the affair will communicate with the partner who committed adultery hoping that communication alone will end the relationship with the third party. 3.Post-affair effects on the women’s self-identity: After experiencing a marriage involving adultery, women will generally reflect on their past and compare the changes that took place after their marriage and start to focus on their own self-identity in current times. Finally, the study finds that while initially the marriage will be greatly affected by the patriarchal norms of society often resulting in self-oppression of the wife, the end result of a husband committing adultery often is the women can and will rediscover themselves and start the process of rebuilding their self-identity and find the courage pursue their lifelong dreams and admirations. |
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