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| 題名: | 年輕男同志之存在孤獨與伴侶親密關係之研究 |
| 其他題名: | A Study of The Youth Gay's Existential Isolation and Partner Intimacy |
| 作者: | 吳柏翰
WU, BO-HAN |
| 貢獻者: | 生死學系碩士班
鄭青玫
CHENG, CHING-MEI |
| 關鍵詞: | 男同志;伴侶親密關係;存在孤獨
Gay;Partner Intimacy;Existential Isolation |
| 日期: | 2020 |
| 上傳時間: | 2022-05-09 14:42:57 (UTC+8) |
| 摘要: | 本研究探討三位年輕男同志伴侶親密關係中的孤獨經驗來了解存在孤獨經驗，以及存在孤獨對年輕男同志自我存在狀態的影響和男同志伴侶親密關係與存在孤獨、自我存在狀態的互動關係。研究發現如下：一、人際孤獨與心理孤離為存在孤獨的淺層表徵，本研究中，男同志的孤獨經驗有三類，人際孤獨、心理孤離、存在孤獨，在存在孤獨部分，呈現出四個部分，（一）、對關係模糊的孤獨，（二）、無法被懂的孤獨，（三）、雙平行線，（四）、無力參與化解。男同志的存在孤獨經驗實為人際孤獨與心理孤離更深層而未能覺察的底層經驗。二、缺少「面對存在孤獨」的內在力量易對親密關係產生負面的循環，存在孤獨為年輕男同志帶來存在焦慮，其對自我狀態的影響讓男同志更容易經驗存在孤獨。其中，男同志顯現容易出現以性填補孤獨的狀態，男同志以我/它關係的方式來對抗存在孤獨，久之，卻帶來性愛後的空虛。另外，社會恐同帶來的社會處境加深男同志對存在孤獨處境的覺知，為男同志的特殊邊境經驗。一致的是因孤獨進入關係，在缺少面對存在孤獨的內在力量時焦慮引發防衛機制，對自我存在狀態，伴侶親密關係產生負面影響。三、自我存在狀態的反思，帶來面向存在孤獨的內在力量，使男同志有意義的轉向他人。不滿意的伴侶親密關係啟動個人反思，對自我需求、自我存在狀態的覺察與反思，使重新認識自我、帶來親密關係的重構，並顯露出對愛的需求。另外經歷分離或分手的歷程，亦為開啟自我存在狀態反思的契機。此一自我存在狀態的反思歷程增加面對存在孤獨的內在力量，使年輕男同志能在伴侶親密關係之中能有意義轉向他人，男同志自我的存在狀態的覺察帶來內在力量的成長，轉化存在孤獨的痛苦，並邁向真誠的關係與健康關係的循環。 以上，對年輕男同志存在孤獨經驗與伴侶親密關係、自我存在狀態的互動關係的探究，研究者對同志諮商實務工作及未來研究提出建議。
The purpose of this study is to explore the lonely experience of three youth gay in their intimate relationships to understand the existential isolation experience and the impact of the existential isolation on the self-existence status of youth gay and the interaction between the intimate relationship of gay partners and the existential isolation and self-existence. The research found the following: 1.Interpersonal isolation and intrapersonal isolation are shallow representations of the existential isolation. In this study, there are three types of youth gay's lonely experiences: Interpersonal isolation, intrapersonal isolation, existential isolation. The research found that there are four parts of existential isolation. (1) Isolation for vague relationships, (2) Isolation that cannot be understood, (3) Two parallel lines, (4) Unable to participate in the resolution. The existential isolation of gay is a deeper level of Interpersonal isolation and intrapersonal isolation that cannot be noticed.2. Lack of the strength of ＂facing existential isolation ＂ tends to cause a negative cycle to partner intimacy. The existential isolation brings anxiety to youth gay. That impact let self-state makes it easier for gay men to experience existential isolation. The emergence of gay is prone to fill loneliness with sex. Mainstream men and gay men face the pattern of loneliness in sex, and it is easier to fight the existential isolation in the way of I / It, and bring emptiness after sex. Besides, the social situation brought about by homophobia deepens gay men's awareness of the existential isolation, which is a special border experience for gay men. Entering the relationship because of loneliness and moving towards the defense mechanism also negatively affects the state of self-existence and affects partner intimacy.3. The reflection of self-existence state that brings inner power to facing existential isolation and a meaningful turn to others. The collation of the partner's intimate relationship process brings awareness and reflection to the state of self-existence, and then re-understands the self to bring about the reconstruction of the intimate relationship and reveals the demand of love. Also, the process of separation or breakup is an opportunity to reflect on the state of self-existence. This self-reflection process increases the inner strength of facing existential isolation and enables young gay men to meaningfully turn to others in their partner intimacy relationship. The awareness of the gay self's existence status brings the growth of internal strength and transforms the pain of existential isolation and moving towards a cycle of sincere and healthy relationships. To sum up, the research on the interactive relations between youth gay's existential isolation, intimate relationship with their partners, and self-existence status, the researchers made suggestions for the practice of gay counseling and future research. |
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